Do you enjoy sex? I know I do!
As you age, it makes sense that it should get better, right? You and your partner are more attuned to each other — you know what each other likes and you can ‘read’ them. As you get more comfortable with each other it should get more satisfying and you should enjoy sex even more.
Seems to me that the more you practice the better it should get! And the more you should enjoy sex!
Sadly, that’s not the case with many more couples than you would even dream. And it’s not the institution of marriage that turns off the libido machine!
Women can lose their desire after childbirth and with increased responsibilities and stress. Raise your hand if sex is usually the very LAST thing on your mind on a Friday night after a week of:
- working (or job hunting)
- kids sports games
- dinner (if you’re lucky and don’t order pizza or hit the drive-thru)
- bill paying
- worrying about bill paying
- thinking about how different it could be
Did I miss anything?
The sad part of all this is that, as women age, they actually hit their stride between the sheets. Unfortunately, that stride becomes buried deep because all the other things of life take over! When you finally can enjoy sex you’re too tired to focus on it!
I don’t know about anyone else, but if I’m good at something I want to do it more! Practice makes perfect, eh?
“Gee, are you saying that we should ignore everything else and just focus on THAT?”
I’m saying BALANCE is the KEY.
I’m saying that lack of organization in the above list can help attribute to more stress which dominoes until sex doesn’t even make it to the long list, let alone the short list!
I’m saying there are systems you can put in place that will save time, ease your burden, lessen your stress and help you be in the mood for love!
I’m saying that everything doesn’t have to be hard!
Well, some things do
My point is this: When you put EVERYTHING else ahead of the time you and your honey need for intimacy everything else will suffer! The two of you deserve your time together!
Let’s start putting some wood on that fire and fan the flames into an inferno again!
What would do it for you? What holds your time with your lover hostage?
Let me know below!